Are you and your partner working your way through the aftermath of infidelity? Are you wondering how to regain trust after cheating?  You have lots of company. So many couples feel just like you. In almost every session or encounter that I have with couples, the topic of trust comes up. Like you, they are […]

When infidelity occurs in a relationship, it’s not just the act of betrayal that shakes the foundation—it’s the aftermath, the fallout, and the way we interpret and navigate through it all. Have you ever stopped to consider bias in the aftermath of infidelity? These biases color our perceptions, decisions, and actions in the wake of […]

What do you think about the truth and honesty after infidelity? If you feel like they are required for recovery after the affair, you aren’t wrong. You aren’t alone if you were betrayed and want the whole truth. You may even believe that, without knowing every single detail, you simply cannot move forward.  Yet, is […]

Does “I’m sorry” matter when it comes to infidelity? Of course. Yet, to apologize for cheating is just to begin your affair recovery journey. The goal is to offer magic words that will fix things between you. The aim is to reveal your desire to honor your partner’s experience and to be available for all […]

Sometimes, the conventional advice for “overcoming infidelity” just doesn’t cover the crisis in a marriage. Often, the relationship is overwhelmed by the scope of the betrayal, and it all seems impossible to fix. Infidelity always hurts. Mutual infidelity is its own kind of crisis. When both partners cheat, it can seem like your relationship sky […]